Kuidas aidata vägivallatsejat

Ohvri aitamise ja kaitsmise kõrval on vaja tegeleda ka vägivallatsejaga. Kuna mu lähikonnas on akuutne vägivallajuhtum, siis värskendasin oma teadmisi, kuidas käituda vägivallatsejaga. Siin üks hea lühiartikkel Steven Stosnylt:

No one falls in love with fantasies of power, of forcing their will on their loved ones. We fall in love with fantasies of value – of loving and being loved. When we substitute power for value, love can never be satisfying, and we can never realistically feel like responsible, caring, valuable adults.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/anger-in-the-age-entitlement/201301/never-tell-your-partner-stop-abuse

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